Can a surgeon remove a tumor he’s never had??
Can a mechanic fix something that’s never happened to his car?
If you understand the nature of distortion and homeostasis preservation in the human brain, the person who’s impaired is the LAST ADVICE you should follow.
If they understood their problem well, they would have solve it, instead of sitting in my office asking for my help.
PS:
Yeah, yeah, I know lots of emotionally reactive thinkers will be upset with this clear answer … not because it’s inaccurate, but because its “offensive”.
So before you come at me, please set your emotions aside and bring an actual argument that follows the laws of logic, and avoids fallacies. If you don’t understand logical fallacies, study those before you throw embarrassing gibberish out for everyone to see.
Dewey Gaedcke’s answer to What are the benefits of seeking therapy?